pick an image: who is your next lover?
- ebony exalted
- Jan 20
- 6 min read
pile 1: black woman in red carnival outfit.
pile 2: red, white, yellow and black fractal image.
pile 3: dancer scantily clad on a pole.
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your lover is interested in committing to you. they could be a serial dater, a serial monogamist or they just feel a need to take you off the market or build with you. it’s a no brainer for them. your partner could be the possessive type but it’s not that they seek to trap you inherently, you just might have so many suitors, or they are sure they like you and have something to offer so there is a haste here without it being forcibly rushed. this is a very informed, levelheaded decision to commit to you. this person is serious because they seriously like you a lot and see a future with you. your next serious partner might just be your last one in life actually. you might be particularly young or this decision to commit comes much sooner than the average couple, but i’m getting this is someone who your relationship constantly feels exciting, new or you all just work so well cognitively, morally and sexually that it literally only makes sense. you all may fall pregnant very soon into this relationship so beware if you’re opposed. this could prompt the commitment. this is someone who is very dedicated to having an amazing work-life balance with you, where neither of you abandon your careers. they do expect to be there equally for your child and having quality fun time as a family as work thrives. this is someone that when you’re pregnant or they are pregnant (if you decide to have children or have some sort of responsibility for other lives [which is also a no brainer in this case]) you are going to be treated like royalty. anything that is asked of your partner is granted during that time, and as soon as you’re ready to start working again there’s not only a fire within you, but lots of support from your lover. you or this person could be fire signs or have fire placements. maybe the both of you have fire in the same place in your charts (like 2 fire suns, venus, moons, mars, etc). there’s something about having that first child that puts an extremely high vibrational, high energy battery in both of yall backs. i feel like usain bolt, it is so strange! because marriage normally does not invigorate people the way having a family sends you both into this go-getter, athletic-like overdrive without it being overbearing or causing burn out. you could both be athletes or work physically demanding jobs, or just find yourselves so active together. it’s waking up excited for life everyday. your stamina for life becomes exponential after having children. both people in a relationship normally do not see this much harmony or success after having children at the *same exact time*. you both might start working so much following the birth, or you just have so much creativity to share with each other or the world. this could be alot of sex if not work, or both. someone here is definitely starting a business geared towards children or making content for children that takes off running; it’s so successful. the infatuation with life is just amazing to see. you know those family dynamics where they rep themselves so hard and proudly, like “Johnsons are winners!” or infamous bloodlines? you have that kind of family that is known for beauty, talent or capability, success, happiness and love. it’s such an intensity of these positive feelings associated with your family life, both amongst each other and how other people view you. it’s a good rep that is genuinely that way behind closed doors. you know you’ve met your soulmate because starting a family with them feels like the best thing you ever did in your life, even if you have qualms as a single, childless person now. yall might be the kinds of people who get old and are still super affectionate and sexual. i think you and your partner are just intensely attracted to each other and the success you share as a family unit makes it hard to stay off each other. you have such good reason to be highly attracted to each other as you all age and i’m talking age. you both might have super long, super successful careers and be old, but considered super attractive for your age and still find each other attractive. yall may end up having several children, maybe 3 max. i don’t think you ever fall out of love. like it’s not just “we tolerate each other over time” you all are in love and it’s the kind of love that is not just a feeling, it is so conscious and and materially makes sense. like this is the kind of person it just makes sense to choose everyday. you all might have sex on the first date. the first date might go so well it’s like you never leave. your partner feels like you’re their match sexually and just creatively, in their hearts. again double fire energy.
2:
you all may meet through other people. you all may even meet when you’re both in other relationships. someone very specifically could meet on a double date you attended with other people but you two end up hitting it off. you all might be an opposites attract kind of thing, like an introvert and an extrovert, age gap, interracial, the popular one and the nerd. you all are an interesting compliment but you aren’t the same at all. like wind to someone’s fire. you are so chaotic together. you all could be like friends with benefits or sugarbaby and daddy that happened to fall in love. you meet under circumstances where it almost doesn’t make sense that you all would or even should be interested but you give your partner what they may be naturally missing and vice versa. you all might be into polyamory or group sex. you may end up getting eloped or you all constantly make huge decisions off a whim. i’m hearing marry you by bruno mars. you both make decisions that had anyone else made them their life would be in shambles but you all just work. you both have one in a million life stories, like the double date thing. or maybe for example one person’s mother didn’t actually want to have them but they went through with it, or maybe someone’s mother was meant to give birth in one place but she went into labor someplace else, maybe an entirely different country. you all could share an extremely rare coincidence like maybe your mothers both have the same disease, you‘re in the background of a picture taken years ago unknowingly or identical birth marks. it’s just something about being able to relate on things no one else in the world or very few have experienced lol. you both could be daredevils and routinely do dangerous, risky or out of the box things. you all could meet at work. maybe one of you is a client to the other and you hit it off in a place where people normally do not fall in love, like a strip club or some form of sex work or even a one night stand gone right. i actually hear cinema by harry styles so you all found each other cool in situations most people would not dare get emotionally invested possibly due to stigma.
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this could be someone you’ve routinely rejected or underrated, like a childhood friend or family friend you don’t see in a romantic light. you may see them dressed up differently one day and it all just clicks. this may be someone you can tell any and everything or have no shame around, then all of a sudden you’re distant because of these feelings. i’m seeing you belong to me by taylor swift, like her and her love interest communicating through the window kind of close. you may be surprised by how sexually attracted you are to this person or one day they just flirt with you so hard or stare. you all may move so quickly because you already know each other. you could be childhood sweethearts. people could have shipped you together for a very long time even though you had always said no. you could also have worked alongside this person for a long time without knowing, so you actually have grown up together even if you didn’t know each other in childhood. i’m thinking of kandi and todd from RHOA (basically she is a cast member, he was part of production. they got together after viewers saw her not only lose her previous fiancé on television, but also get a divination that her next husband was “already there with her” - working behind the camera the whole time.) he would’ve already had so much insight into her personal life already seeing her go through so many things without knowing it would matter. there is already a sense of familiarity even if you all were never interested in being romantic before. this could also for someone specific, but there is a same sex relationship with a friend. so you really would have never guessed it would go anywhere if you never felt attraction to someone of that gender identity before but it just happens.














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